Sex Worker Advice: Stay Safe, Stay Smart, Stay Healthy

If you work in sex work, you know the job isn’t always easy. The right info can make a huge difference in daily life. Below are practical tips you can use right now to protect yourself, keep your health in check, and handle money and legal issues with confidence.

Staying Safe on the Job

First thing: always trust your gut. If a client feels off, end the meeting early. Use a safety check‑in system – tell a friend where you’re going, set a timer, and share the client’s details. Keep a phone with a quick‑dial emergency contact; most phones let you set a ‘panic button’ that sends location to a trusted person.

Screen clients before meeting. Check photos, read reviews, and ask for verification like a social media profile. When you meet a new client, pick a public place first, then move somewhere private only after you feel comfortable. Bring a condom and lubricant with you every time – never rely on the client’s supplies.

Boundaries matter. Decide in advance which services you offer and which you don’t. Communicate those limits clearly and stick to them. If a client tries to push past your line, end the interaction and walk away. It’s your right to say no without explanation.

Know Your Rights, Health & Money

Legal protection varies by location. In many places, decriminalisation is still a work in progress. Check the latest local laws – a quick search for "sex work law" plus your city will give you current info. If you’re unsure, reach out to a local advocacy group; they often have free legal advice and can help you if you face police harassment.

Health is non‑negotiable. Schedule regular STI checks, even if you use protection every time. Many clinics offer free or low‑cost testing for sex workers. Keep a personal health diary – note any symptoms, test dates, and results. This helps you spot patterns early.

Money management can be tricky when cash is common. Open a separate bank account for work earnings to keep finances clear. Set aside a portion of each payment for taxes – a good rule is 20‑30% depending on your tax bracket. Use budgeting apps to track income and expenses, and consider setting up an emergency fund covering at least three months of living costs.

Mental health is just as important as physical health. The job can be stressful, so find a support network. Online forums, local meet‑ups, or a therapist who understands sex work can provide a safe space to talk. If you feel burnout, take a break, even a short one, and focus on hobbies you enjoy.

Finally, keep learning. New safety tools, legal updates, and health advice appear all the time. Subscribe to reputable newsletters from sex‑worker rights organizations, and stay connected with peers who share useful info.

By applying these tips, you can make your work safer, healthier, and more sustainable. Remember: you deserve respect, protection, and the right to make informed choices every day.